Compulsive Spending & Shopping Bulimia – Mental disorders? Or bad habits encouraged by modern society?

‘Buyer’s remorse’ is a term often associated with feelings of guilt after a person has spent a large sum of money on something, more often than not clothes or accessories. An easily developed Louboutin addiction can trigger this type of spending, followed by a feeling of regret, but something that’s relevant to even more of us is the way in which we spend frivolously on high street fast fashion, leaving tons of items unworn or ready to be eliminated from the closet only several months down the line.

During a clear out of my own, I got ruthless. This meant the bags and boxes of things that were building up ready to be thrown away grew larger and larger, and this is where the remorse set in. Seeing the number of items from stores like Primark, New Look and H&M that were in these piles – knowing I would never be able to sell them on for the fact they were so cheap in the first place, and knowing that most of them were bought on impulse and mostly unworn – gave me an overwhelming feeling of disappointment. Ever had that feeling of gazing into your wardrobe and not being able to find anything appropriate to wear, despite the fact it is jammed full of clothes? With cheap fast fashion and compulsive shopping habits joining forces, it is likely you’re not the only one. Whether you spent a fiver on a handbag or splurged a good five thousand down Bond Street, if the purchase was one of impulse and has been neglected ever since, your bank balance is losing out.

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Understanding Collectors – Putting Things into Perspective

Most of us are guilty of holding onto things that are useless for a variety of reasons, and a lot of us also have a collection of certain items, be it handbags, nails polish or stamps. I use the word guilty, because holding a vast collection of particular items seems to something that is commonly shunned. Not all collections are motivated by materialism, however. Take my family’s collection: A freezer door covered in magnets from the souvenir stores of every place we’ve visited. I’m not even sure when or how this started, but now we can’t go anywhere without finding a fridge magnet to take back with us. They go way back to some of our first family holidays, and looking at them all fills me with both nostalgia and gratefulness that we’ve been able to visit some of these amazing and unusual places.

My personal collections have never stuck around for long – they tend to be more like phases than anything else, spurred on by other people. TY Beanie Babies and Uni Ball gel pens stick out in my mind, and a little friendly competition and admiration amongst my school friends is what kept me pestering my parents for more. Seeming as you’re on a website dedicated to wardrobes however, I will focus on the kinds of collections that grow in there.

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Organising Your Closet – ‘So, I have the perfect collection of clothes, but what do I do with them?’

There’s no use spending all this time creating the perfect capsule collection if the way you present and store your clothes is something to be reckoned with. For people like me, half the fun of wardrobes lies within the organisation and presentation of the clothes, rather than the clothes themselves. Being a student, and downsizing from a five door multiple rail wardrobe (and a lot of drawers) to a very small two door wardrobe, I have a little experience in making the most out of the space you have.

For someone who prefers all of her clothes to be hanging in one place, with the exception of sweats, base layers and the odd thing that doesn’t need ironing, I have managed to achieve a state of contentment with the ways my clothes are organised. Of course if you’re reading this, it is likely that you’ll share the popular desire to have a separate room entirely devoted to clothes and accessories, but the practicality and likelihood of that happening for the majority of us is very slim, so it’s time to make the most of what you have. Even if you did have a whole room in which to store your clothes, it could be useful to get some tips or inspiration on ways to maximise the space you have and store them in a way that ensures your clothes are protected whilst still being accessible.

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Smart Staples & Bad Basics

Investment is definitely the ‘Off the Rail’ buzz word. That is, investment of both time and money. Here I have compiled two very contrasting examples of how using the previously posted ‘Wardrobe Essentials’ list can go if you don’t pick the right fits, brands and shades, and how effortlessly perfect and put together you can look if you take a little time and spend a little more money investing in something which will look amazing from day one. One key thing to remember is that when you have good shoes and a good bag, everything else should fall into place. However, spending thousands of pounds on a handbag doesn’t necessarily mean you’re on the fast track to chic city. In fact, in my example of ‘Bad Basics’, the bags are by Alexander McQueen and Martin Margiela. Two highly respected labels, but who cares who designed your handbag if you’re the personification of a car crash?

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Organising Your Closet – Wardrobe Essentials

Almost every women’s magazine you pick up will be telling you that one thing or another is an ‘essential’ or ‘investment piece’ or ‘a classic’. I’m sure that we have now gathered that not all of these things should be taken so literally, and finding the essentials is about finding things that fit you and your lifestyle. I’ve compiled a list of items, however, that may help to trigger those of you who are trying to fill gaps in their newly de-cluttered wardrobes following a possible closet purge, fuelled with inspiration from the ever chic Parisienne wardrobe.

  • LBD – The simplest dress in the most flattering shape you can find will be the best investment, as it will be versatile. Embellishments or edgy cuts can soon go out of fashion and can limit your chances of wearing them for both day and evening.
  • White T-Shirt – Try a few on in different stores to get a feel for what you like. Pay attention to whether crew necks or V-necks suit you best and make them your staple. This also makes it easier to eliminate unflattering styles when searching for the perfect tee, possibly in more shades.
  • Grey Jumper – Grey is a neutral colour that won’t clash with blue jeans and won’t look too full on with black bottoms. The rule for neck shapes still applies here. Having a thinner jumper for layering as well as a chunky knit for colder days isn’t a bad idea if you feel like stocking up. Beige is another colour option that could work well with a lot of things, depending on the tones within the rest of your wardrobe.
  • Black/Indigo Jeans – I guess this comes down to personal preference, or of course you could go for both. I stick with black and dark indigo skinny styles (the darker and fewer details, the more flattering for my thunder thighs complex) preferably with a higher waist and a nice amount of stretch. A pinch of trial and error, and conveniently working in Levi’s has helped me to overcome my jeans shopping phobia, but only due to the Curve I-D range which launched within weeks of me starting there. You’re measured to find out your proportions and are then shown jeans that fit your body shape; no pinching, no gaping. Give every style a try, you might be surprised to find that the skinny/boot cut/straight legs you’ve sworn off for all time are actually flattering for you. The amount of women I’ve served who have sworn off skinny jeans from the second they walked in, and ended up buying a pair after finding they look amazing in them, is pretty enlightening.

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French Dressing – Minimalism Meets Perfection


These days, if you ask someone the one item they couldn’t live without, they would most likely struggle to reel off less than five. We’re all aware of how consumerism has taken over modern society in the western world. Some people live for it, others live against it. Minimalism is a lifestyle that has become a trend. However, minimalism isn’t about having a closet rammed full of ‘classics.’ Owning twenty Little black dresses or wearing Calvin Klein’s clean silhouettes does not mean you’re minimalist. Minimalism is paring everything down to the essentials. It’s about quality over quantity. Longevity over trends. Buying things because you love them and you can’t live without them and will squeeze every inch of life out of them until they’re beyond repair. As Leo Babauta of mnmlist.com puts it, the goal is to ‘Clear away the distractions so we can create something incredible.’ It’s not hitting the high street on pay day with the masses to fritter away your hard earned money on disposable fashion, yet more scatter cushions, or over priced coffee.

Those mastering a minimalist wardrobe – whilst still investing in their appreciation for fashion and keeping up appearances – are the cliché but internationally envied French women. The ‘Four-Five Piece French Wardrobe’ seems to be a phenomenon that women in the know are trying to adopt into their lifestyle, shunning materialism and aiming for a beautiful carefully chosen collection of clothes. The idea is that you build a wardrobe of pieces that all fit together like a perfectly curated puzzle. The four to five pieces lies on the principal that you invest in only four or five pieces per season, to keep your wardrobe up to date, to fill any gaps, and to replace items that are either worn out or just don’t suit anymore.

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On Display – Jewellery

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Organising Your Closet – The Big Purge

Many of us are guilty for owning a large amount of clothing that goes unworn, taking up valuable closet space and adding to the daily dilemma of deciding what to wear. Closet purging can be a tough thing to do. It takes time and focus, and throwing out clothes that we’ve spent hard earned money on can be hard to stomach. However, de-cluttering is essential, and the feeling you will have afterwards – when you look into your organised wardrobe full of only the things you love and what flatters you – is priceless.

To start with, removing everything from your closet is the best idea. This way, you will feel less inclined to start putting things back in that you don’t truly love. Sort everything into piles of ‘love’, ‘maybe’, and ‘no’. Have a few bin liners at the ready so that as youre doing this, you can sort the no’s into bags to be trashed, donated or sold.

Being ruthless is vital here, so some rules to help you feel comfortable with putting items into the ‘No’ pile will help you along:

  • Hasn’t been worn in a year – it is likely there is a good reason for this. Unless it’s a designer piece that you are choosing to hold onto, perhaps to pass down to someone, it should go.
  • Holes, bobbles, stains – yes even the things you love can end up being too worn out to wear anymore. These items are for the trash.
  • Doesn’t fit – that’s not just in size either. We’re all guilty of loving things that just weren’t made for our body shape. If it doesn’t flatter you it doesn’t deserve to be in your closet.

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The Truth About Black

Slimming, chic, versatile? Check. Boring, Gothic, ageing? Ah, check.

Black is the staple of many women’s wardrobes, sometimes intentionally, sometimes because it’s simply unavoidable. But why would you avoid it? It has a universal reputation for being figure flattering, which in itself is enough of a selling point. The little black dress is a timeless classic, fail-safe and invented by the ultimate preacher of style – Coco Chanel. Dressing head to toe in black is rarely considered unusual in the fashion industry, as US Vogue’s Creative Director – infamous for her single shade wardrobe – Grace Coddington puts it “I want a clean palate. I don’t want to think about what I’m wearing in the morning; I want to put all of my focus on the clothes I’m shooting.”  There are many jobs, such as retail and hospitality, that demand an all black uniform. So why is it that there is still an uneasy association with Goths and funerals?

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On Display – Shoes

All images via The Selby + Jak&Jil